Why are boys jerk?

Answer 1

Guys are jerks because they don't have any respect for women. They will always hit on your best friend, even if they swear up & down that they didn't. They will blame her. They like to cheat, lie, and most of all- FLIRT. Guys will never change unless you make them. You need to be a strong, independent women and take control of your man. Or else he will take control and your relationship will go down the drain.

Okay, I'm not sure how her life has been or what she's been through, but that's only a personal opinion. Just stop for a second before you decide on who you would like to date next. Think about the nicest guy you know, the one that's always kind to you and doesn't get in trouble too often and that probably doesn't have a girlfriend. Do you know why he probably doesn't? Because most girls are too caught up in fantasies of the perfect guy. You can't have "Sweet and kind and sensitive" and have "Strong and muscular and Brave"! That's asking waaaaay too much from any guy. So if you like the later then I feel sorry for you because most of them are jerks who will cheat on you and treat you badly. But once you find out that the geeky kid at the library isn't that bad of a guy, then you will realize how wrong it is to stereotype all guys like this. I am one of those geeky guys, but I love my girlfriend to death and I want to be with her forever.... And if that is what you want, then stop going after the "cool popular" guys. They won't be too cool for much longer anyways. Once you leave high school, the rules change and nobody really cares about popularity anymore. And I am assuming that you are in grade school because of the question, so please do not take offense if my assumption is wrong >.<

Also, don't worry so much on how you look, I know just about every girl does. There will always be a guy that likes you the way that you are, even if you aren't the smartest or have the most "developed" body, there will always be a guy that will fall in love with you.