I had breast enlargement surgery 8 years ago and it was a big mistake. I now have a lot less feeling in my nipples than I used to, despite being reassured that this wouldn't happen. Quite aside of that, it is a decision that I feel so sad that I made. I felt so unfeminine and I was sure that having breast enlargement would make me feel better about myself. As it turned out, I just had this uneasy feeling that I was putting my insecurities on display for the world to see. To me, fake breasts say 'I don't like myself the way I am and I don't respect my body enough to accept it the way it is naturally'. Three years ago I had the implants removed and went back to being an A cup and I felt so relieved. It's a good job I did as 6 months later I met my husband, who thinks my breasts are fabulous and my best feature (he doesn't find large breasts attractive). All I have left from my surgery are a couple of scars and damaged nipples, not to mention the damage to my bank account. Please think twice before having surgery - consider the possibility that the problem is not the size of your breasts, but your belief that you aren't 'good enough' the way you are. I really don't mean to sound patronising or rude, but this is all stuff that I wish I had been aware of before I made the decision to have surgery. x
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