How do you get a 14 year old soccer player to like you?

Answer 1

Whatever you do, don't join soccer if you aren't good enough. That may sound harsh, but if he/she is relatively good at soccer, you'll only make them think that you are odd. If you don't have a friend who is on a soccer team, try to convince one of them to join. Show up to their games to cheer for them, and you'll probably see your 14-year-old soccer player there. Be passive for a while, maybe a game or two, but start to strike up conversation while they're not on the field. Ask questions about the game, about strategies, but try to ask only things you think they know the answer to. It will make them feel more confident and open towards you. After a friendship has been established, try to keep things moving. A mistake many people make is after they become friends with someone they like, they will 'pause', and not make any more moves. If you do this, they will most likely end up 'friend-zoning you'. Keep the ball rolling, so to speak, and you two might end up having mutual feelings.

Answer 2

Soccer players don't need anything extra to make them love you or like.You just need to be you and love the way your really love everyone.I am 16 and a soccer player so that kind of make me a part of your problem.
You can be close to the soccer player by going and watching his matches and congratulate him for the good performance.You can ask him the scores.Get a pretty good knowledge of football and you can ask him what is Offside in soccer so probably that is the question that can bring you near him.Follow the matches and you can even ask him to go out when the team wins.If the team looses then also be optimistic go out with him and talk further in your relationship.If you face any problems then you know who to contact.