Yes, in principle you can take a shaft out of one club and put it in another. If it's a steel shaft, it's almost certainly cheaper to just replace it with a new one. For graphite it's not beyond the capabilities of a well-equipped shop, but it would still probably be cheaper when it was all over to put a new one in the other clubhead. Unless it was a really special shaft. And I can't define "really special".
Most golf shops
Shaft is the handle of the golf club.
Driver or Drivers
The lightest driver head in golf is the Vulcan Speedlite V14 driver, weighing in at 185 grams. With the 40 gram grip, and 45 gram shaft, the whole driver weighs 270 grams. The Cleveland XL 270 also weighs 270 grams, but most of it's weight saving is due to it's 39 gram shaft.
You are actually average height. You would be able to use a standard shaft, however if you feel uncomfortable you could get custom fit.
The main differences are a fairway wood has a smaller head, more loft and a shorter shaft. Obviously the driver has a larger head to a maximum of 460cc, a loft of mainly 8.5 to 10.5 degrees, and a shaft which can be around 44-46 inches long.
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it is a taylor made golf shaft that has a smaller dia at the bottom of the grip .
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I think what you mean is "What is the difference between a 10.5 degree golf driver and a 9.5 degree golf driver?" A higher degreed driver will give you more loft, so the ball will go higher
Standard length will be perfect, standard length are usually 45.75" -46". But if you do feel the shaft is a bit short you could get half an inch or an inch added to it.
No, a golf shaft will fit both right and left handed clubs.