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Manners and Etiquette

The rules of social conduct, and procedures for interaction in polite society and official life. This is grease that makes the wheels of human congress turn smoothly. From the formal addressing of an envelope, to where to seat people at a dinner party, from the correct way to answer a business phone to the intricacies of wedding planning, we will try to find answers to all of your quandaries and do so in the most mannerly fashion possible.

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When writing to husband and wife do you put the man's name first?

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Outside of the traditional, formal "Mr. & Mrs. John Doe", the wife's name is ALWAYS first when using first names: "Jane and John Doe". In social importance, the woman is always first, then males, then children. Traditionally, the man's first and surnames are never separated. The confused idea of the man's name first (John and Jane Doe or Mr. John Doe and Ms. Jane Smith) is neither traditional nor appropriate. At Emilypost.com, she notes that traditionally, a man's name was first on an envelope adddress (Mr. and Mrs. John Doe), and his first and surname were not separated (Jane and John Doe), but that "nowadays", the order was irrelevant.

Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behaviorand Crane's Blue Book of Social Stationery either state outright or give examples consistent with the following:

Married Couples- formally- Mr. & Mrs. John Doe; informally- Jane and John Doe

In which woman kept maiden name- Ms. Jane Smith and Mr. John Doe

In which man is a doctor- Dr. & Mrs. John Doe

In which woman is a doctor- Mr. and Mrs. John Doe or Dr. Jane Doe and Mr. John Doe

In which both spouses are doctors -Dr. and Mrs. John Doe, or The Doctors Doe, or Dr. Jane Doe and Dr. John Doe

What doesn't Gatsby realize about Mrs Sloane's dinner invitation?

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Gatsby doesn't realize that Mrs. Sloane's dinner invitation is a superficial gesture meant to maintain appearances in high society. Mrs. Sloane and her husband are not genuinely interested in building a meaningful connection with Gatsby; instead, they view him as a spectacle to observe and entertain themselves with. Ultimately, Gatsby underestimates the shallowness of their social interactions.

What is the end about in the uninvited?

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At the end of the movie, we find out that Anna has imagined that her sister Alex was alive, when she actually died in the fire that killed the mother. If you watch the movie again, you'll see that no one else actually interacts with Alex (did you see the "Sixth Sense?"). In flashbacks you see what actually happened months earlier on the day the mother and Alex died in the fire.....Anna was angry after seeing her father having sex with the nurse Rachel so she went down to the boathouse to get some fuel to set fire to the big house. Anna doesn't turn the valve off completely causing the fuel to leak out (which Anna didn't do that part on purpose) and Alex stumbles in and causes the lantern to fall, igniting the fuel and the boathouse. I don't quite understand why the sick mother was confined to the boathouse, except maybe so the father could have sex with the nurse, but why the mother was living there isn't really important anyway. So the mother and Alex die in an explosion that was pure accident. Though it appears that Anna did want to burn something that night, it wasn't supposed to be the boathouse, it was just a horrible accident. This event lead Anna to a psychotic break and to the psyche ward we see her in the beginning. During her time at the psyche ward, she met the murderer, Mildred Kemp, who shared her stories of murder with Anna. Anna is released and goes home to find the nurse sharing the home with the father and doesn't trust her. Anna must have repressed the memories of how the fire truly started that night, as no one realizes that Anna played any part in it (again, although accidental). So in order to cope, she IMAGINES her sister is still alive (watch again, no one else ever sees Alex) and she imagines the nurse planned the mother's death (I guess because it is to stressful to admit her actions caused it). This is where the Mildred Kemp murder stories come in--Anna IMAGINES that Mildred was never caught (though at the end we see she has been institutionalized all along), and that Rachel is Mildred's new identity. Therefore, Anna convinces herself, as she tries to convince the sherrif, that Rachel is Mildred, the murderer of the Wright children (the three kids that are haunting her). The sheriff obviously doesn't believe Anna's account of Rachel's identity, which he wouldn't if he knew the real Mildred Kemp was institutionalized. Rachel does sedate her, but we find out at the end, it is because she truly wanted what was best for Anna, not to murder her. Anna wakes up and believes Alex killed Rachel in self defense. Then the father comes along, snaps Anna out of her delusion and we see that Anna killed Rachel. I believe Anna killed her for two reasons: repressed anger from catching her having an affair with the father the night of the fire AND because she was delusional and truly thought Rachel was going to kill her. The boy Matt was just collateral damage because he saw Anna leaving the boathouse the night of the fire and tried to tell her the night he died (we see that in the flashbacks at the end). I believe the haunting from the mother's corpse and the children were trying to make Anna aware of her part in everything and trying to bring her to reality. Rachel did change her identity, but as the father said, I guess it was to escape an abusive relationship. And when Anna says at the end, that she finished what she started, I believe she means that she finally killed the woman that she originally intended to harm the night of the fire, the woman she caught having the affair with her father--Rachel.

Do you bite your thumb at me?

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actually, it was used in the french and English wars, when captors would offer the option to prisoners to either be killed or bite a fig from the anus of a donkey. the sign is a huge insult in England, and tells the other person that i hate you and the only way you can regain my respect is to do something horrible, like to bite a fig out of an ass's ass.

What do I say when greeting or welcoming friends family and visitors to an annual woman's church service?

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You could say something like, "Welcome to our annual women's church service! We are so glad to have you all here to share in this beautiful gathering of faith and community. Thank you for joining us today."

How do you respond if someone writes 'thank you'?

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simply say.. you are welcome! because when you give you dont expect something in return and by saying you are welcome, it is like you are trying to explain to that person that what you have done/given him/her is just for her/him..

How do you form your own clique?

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To form your own clique, start by identifying like-minded individuals who share similar interests, values, and goals. Engage in activities together, communicate openly, and foster a sense of belonging within the group. Be inclusive, respectful, and supportive of each member to strengthen the bonds within your clique.

Why do people ask what after something is said to them but they really did here what was said?

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People sometimes ask "what" after hearing something to signal that they need additional clarification or confirmation. It could be a reflexive response in order to ensure that they have truly understood the message or to prompt the speaker to provide more information. It's a common communication technique used to ensure effective understanding in conversations.

What are social graces?

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Social graces are skills used to interact politely in social situations. They include manners, etiquette (the specific accepted rules within a culture for the application of universal manners), deportment and fashion. These skills were once taught to young women at a finishing school or charm school. The focus of social graces has changed over the last century, recently with an emphasis on business etiquette and international protocol.

Examples Of Social Graces:

1- Saying thank you

2- Saying excuse me when going past someone.

3- Holding doors for someone.

4- Respecting driving rules, suck as not talking on the phone while driving and cutting people off because your mouth is running!

5- Not using signals, cutting people off while driving.

6- Saying I'm sorry when you do something wrong.

7- Making people wait for you

8- Saying please

9- Respecting someone's name by not calling someone out in a public situation, or embarrassing them.

10- Not Pointing at someone.

11- Not Staring at someone.

12 - Not Chewing gum or food loudly, or with mouth open.

13- Not Talking loudly in public.

14- returning phone calls or correspondences.

15- keeping promises.

16- teaching your child manners in public!!!

17- taking a crying child away from the theater, restaurant, grocery store, etc.

18- covering your mouth and nose when you sneeze!!

19- Not Wearing Vulgar clothing or not wearing a shirt in public.

The short and always all-encompassing answer is the Golden Rule . Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Why do people say they feel humbled when they get honored?

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It is a graceful gesture of accepting the honor with humility, rather than displaying vanity. It is a quid pro quo reciprocation of respect to the honor itself, and the person / institution bestowing the honor. This is socially appreciated, and often expected.

The word, when used as a verb, can mean submissive or obedient, so when person says that they are "humbled and honored" it means that they are in a state of submissiveness or obedience to the will of the group that is honoring them. Similar to how the word is used as a verb in Philippians 2:8 "And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross."

How much do you tip a newspaper delivery person at Christmas?

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A common guideline is to tip your newspaper delivery person around $10-$30 at Christmas, depending on the frequency of delivery and your budget. It's also thoughtful to include a handwritten note expressing your appreciation for their service throughout the year.

How do you list married and maiden names in obituaries and Can you list more than one married name?

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In obituaries, it is common to list a person's maiden name followed by their married name(s) in parentheses. If a person has been married multiple times and wants to include all their married names, it is acceptable to list them in the order they were acquired, separated by commas.

Writing a newspaper birthday card showers?

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Happy birthday to a one-in-a-million person! Your presence brightens our days and your kindness fills our hearts. May this year be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Wishing you a day as special as you are!

Should ex wife be listed in the funeral obituary?

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It is up to the family to decide whether to include the ex-wife in the funeral obituary. In some cases, if the relationship was significant and respectful, it may be appropriate to include her. However, it ultimately depends on the family's preference and the nature of the relationship.

How much do you tip a shampoo person?

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****I think it varies from person to person. I feel that 10% of what you are paying for to be done to your hair is perfect. If you feel that the assistant should receive more than 10%, that would always be OK, but less may make them feel as though they did not do their job as well as they could have. People in a profession such as this LIVE on these tips, they do not get paid much otherwise!****

personally I used to tip my old shampoo girl,but since I started going to a new place the girla lways gets soap in my ears and doesn't do I great job so i don't tip her. I think between 2-5 dollars depending on the hair salon is more than enough.

Define social condition?

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Social condition refers to the overall state and quality of society, including factors such as economy, culture, technology, and social norms. It encompasses the various social structures, relationships, and behaviors that influence the well-being and functioning of a community or society. Understanding social conditions is important for addressing social issues and improving overall societal welfare.

What does the Queen say when dubbing someone a knight?

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A young servant or follower; a military attendant., In feudal times, a man-at-arms serving on horseback and admitted to a certain military rank with special ceremonies, including an oath to protect the distressed, maintain the right, and live a stainless life., One on whom knighthood, a dignity next below that of baronet, is conferred by the sovereign, entitling him to be addressed as Sir; as, Sir John., A champion; a partisan; a lover., A piece used in the game of chess, usually bearing a horse's head., A playing card bearing the figure of a knight; the knave or jack., To dub or create (one) a knight; -- done in England by the sovereign only, who taps the kneeling candidate with a sword, saying: Rise, Sir ---.

What is a nickname for Americans?

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the United States' nickname is America

Is it wrong to say excuse my left when giving someone an item with your left hand?

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In modern Western Culture it is not an insult.

However, there are societies that do consider it insulting.

In heraldry the right (hand) is 'Dexter' and the left (hand) is 'Sinister', hence the expression a sinister person, it really means a left handed person, not someone who is 'underhanded'.

I am a sinister person, totally left handed. Casually and in fun I can be known as 'Cack - handed' or 'Gammy - handed'.

There are degrees of chirality (handedness) . I am 96% left handed. I might occasionally do something that is right-handed. Right- handers (dexter) will also have degrees of handedness, e.g kick a ball, or hold a bat etc.,

There is a web-site for left-handers.

What do you say back when someone says sorry?

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Well if someone hurt you bad then you can simply say that sorry doesn't make it up and i will never forgive you

but if its a small problem then you should accept their sorries :)

Hope it helped

Should you take a gift to the office Christmas party?

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Anyone can gift their coworker and managers on the christmas. its a lovely gesture which will improve your bonding between collegues. customizing gifts for coworkers and managers during Christmas is a wonderful gesture that can significantly enhance your relationships with colleagues.

This personalized approach goes beyond a generic gift and communicates a genuine effort to understand and appreciate your colleagues. Such gestures not only bring joy during the holiday season but also contribute to strengthening the bonds within the team. Go with trend of giving customized branded products to your coworkers and enhance your relationship with them.

Why you should not enter the laboratory without your teacher's permission?

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Health and safety.

The school could be taken to court if you injured yourself by one of the chemicals or bacteria in the lab

What is linen attendant?

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A linen attendant is a staff member in hotels or hospitality establishments who is responsible for managing and organizing the inventory of linens and other textiles. They ensure that all rooms are stocked with clean and properly folded linens, and they also keep track of inventory levels, place orders for new linens, and ensure that soiled linens are properly cleaned.

If you are invited over for drinks what would you take with you as a gift?

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A bottle of wine, champagne, or a nicely packaged craft beer would make for a suitable and appreciated gift. Alternatively, you could bring a bouquet of flowers or gourmet chocolates as a gesture of appreciation.

What is the meaning of junior-senior promenade?

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The junior-senior promenade, more commonly known as prom, is a formal event typically held at the end of the school year for high school juniors and seniors. It is a special occasion for students to celebrate and socialize, often characterized by formal attire, dancing, and sometimes live entertainment. Prom is considered a rite of passage and a memorable experience for many students.