How can you win over a narcissist?

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a N. can be won over simply by finding what it is they want next. if it is something they are wanting they will be eating out of the palm of your hands. be sure it's something they truly desire. this can be a little tricky also. they are shrewd and suspicious and very paranoid.

AnswerWIN them OVER?!?!?!

If you're trying to "win over" a narcissist, maybe you don't fully understand what they are. They are users. They will use you for as long as they can -- if it suits their needs, lying, cheating, conning and manipulating to get wha they want. Then they will drop you when they are done and move on to the next source of "supply". As if you never existed.

Forget winning them over. You need to run. In the OPPOSITE direction of the Narcissist. And fast.

~ T

AnswerYou cant, that's why they are narcassists. They are way too manipulative and you cannot beat them at their own game. They never get tired of manipulating and playing their head games. The best thing is to just end the relationship and realise you were not in love with a real person. What you were in love with was the illusion they presented to you. They are empty shells. They have no heart. You cannot win over something that is not there. AnswerYou cant win over a N, they win you over. If you have ever known a true N, think about the contacts or relationships they have with others and how the N percieves these interactions. The only relationships Ns have are by design or need. If you do win an N over it is only because they are one step ahead of you and have plans in place for the relationship that eventuates. So don't think you have actually won over an N if you end up with one you have pursued. They are clever strategists who don't do anything for nothing.
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